Unfortunately not everyone is going to like what you do. For every major band there are legions of people who think they are rubbish. This is a strength. If you can get people to react (positive or otherwise) when they see you, you have more chance of them remembering you. Some people will look out for every time you post another gig on Live Unsigned or release an album as an opportunity to air their opinion on your band.
Fans aren’t passionate about bands that are OK, bands that are alright or decent musicians. Whether you are Jello Biafra, Jay Z, Nick Cave, Lady Gaga or just playing at the local bar its better to go out on a limb, be remarkable, unusual and memorable. Polarizing opinion is a good thing because the people who are passionate about your music become the evangelizing fans you really want, the ones who tell their friends, blog about you and make fan videos. The true fans. Be honest in your communications via all your channels and nurture the relationships with the people who love what you do, don’t waste your time on those who don’t like you.
Going down badly in front of an audience happens to all bands at some point in their career. You may be in front of the wrong crowd or have sound problems or you’re just not at the top of your game that night. It happens, be yourself and don’t comprise. Do what you do and focus on the one person in the room who probably does like you, don’t give up and win them over. Nine Inch Nails got bottled every time they played a support gig with Guns N Roses, but a small part of the crowd loved what they did and they developed a cult audience.
Its difficult when people attack you and your music, unfortunately this (like file sharing) is something you need to accept if you get any level of success. You will get bad blog reviews and attacks by forum Trolls. Every band you have ever liked have been through this, some people just live to attack others online. This is why some people in the public eye try and avoid the internet. 5 minutes reading Youtube comments and you’ll see the sort of things people say about musicians. Its probably not worth commenting on these kind of posts, but if you can possibly get your fans to defend you this can be a cool way of encouraging debate and building buzz. Passionate exchanges about music are brilliant and exciting and are to be encouraged.
If you’re not hated somewhere online it probably means people don’t care or have never heard of you. Keep being interesting and remarkable and you have far more chance of building a career in the new music industry (even if that means some people hate you). Getting them talking in the first place is half the battle.


